Special to The Globe and Mail. And like many other writers, Catron’s book developed as a result of the popularity of her Modern Love essay describing the results of that experiment. True love is the ultimate means of validation and personal transformation, and yet a virtuous woman should never pursue love directly. Instead, they render love an ordinary experience. She contrasts these love stories with her own ten year relationship , which made me feel kind of queasy, simply because I identified with spending too much time in a relationship that slowly fizzled, unbeknownst to the couple, until its pulse flatlined. How to Fall in Love with Anyone asks the reader to question the validity of those love stories. I believe the title is not that relevant.
Top Stories Ambassador or distraction: Sep 24, Monica rated it really liked it. In discussing her relationships, she writes about how she felt and behaved, rather than dishing on her exes. Jul 15, Juliet rated it it was amazing. Sep 19, Jamila rated it it was amazing. Anyway, the book was a quick read and interesting to hear from the author’s personal perspective how marriage has changed and relationships have been redefined – none of the information or research provided was anything new to me, but it was a unique take by weaving her family’s marriage history with current social science research.
About Mandy Len Catron. Sometimes, after he left, I would turn on the shower and cry loudly, just to get that impulse out of my lungs.
Catron’s tone throughout the book strives to be academic, but I couldn’t help but feel at times it was a bit whining and needy. Be the first to ask a question about How to Fall in Love with Anyone.
How to Fall in Love with Anyone: A Memoir in Essays by Mandy Len Catron
If you are looking to give feedback on our new site, please send it along to feedback globeandmail. As we swayed on the pavement, my head on his shoulder, we were only mimicking romance, trying on conventions to see how they felt. The pleasures of ordinary devotion.
As each unravels, she searches for clues in the lore that makes up her family history, looking for scripts that have influenced her own ideals about love. In a series of candid, vulnerable, and wise essays that takes a closer look at what it means to love someone, be loved, and how we present our love to the world, Catron deconstructs her own personal canon of love stories. But endings are different. Having said that, as someone who recently went through some epic heartbreak, I did find this book really useful in offering a bit of perspective and oodles and oodles of HOPE.
In the end, I felt like I was promised to understand a bit more than what I was offered.
Catron touches on these themes, but I was left wanting more. But it was enjoyable and interesting, smart and well-written.
It’s almost impossible to become an adult without dragging along with you a heavy load of assumptions about love. The author devotes multiple chapters to the love stories of her family, all situated within Appalachia, and details how the relationships allowed individuals to move beyond the circumstances they inherited. Just a moment while we sign you in to your Goodreads account.
When her parents divorced after a twenty-eight year marriage and her own ten-year relationship ended, those were the questions that Mandy Len Catron wanted to answer. Overall, this book was okay.
As far as I could tell, rightness and wrongness were only ever apparent in retrospect. You are already interesting. This reminds me of something I made my boyfriend do on one of our first dates, where we played a question asking game that encourage medium-to-deep conversations instead of the polite, small talk that often occurs.
Anyway, the book was a quick read and interesting to hear from the author’s personal perspective how marriage has changed and relationships have been redefined – none of the information or research provided was anything new to me, but it was a unique take by weaving her family’s marriage history with current social science research.
Deciding to break up, I thought, was like learning a star had burned out in a distant galaxy, even though you can still see it in the sky: This book isn’t meant as one continuous discussion of a particular time.
How to Fall in Love with Anyone: A Memoir in Essays
I understood why you might put off telling anyone about your separation: As a teenager, I was obsessed mahdy defining love. It just requires reading it with a discerning eye for what my appeal to you.
I love books that alternate between anecdotes and research. Sep 29, Jill rated it liked it. Our views of love—what we want from it, what we think it should feel like—are rooted in the context of our lives.
Review: Mandy Len Catron’s How to Fall in Love with Anyone is a touching guide
View all 3 comments. When I am out to brunch with friends and Mark walks by with the dog and waves hello, I blush at the sight of the two of them, worried my friends will see it on my face: I’ve been doing this more lately it seems with non-fiction books; reading authors who aren’t experts in a field, but draw on studies to make a point. mandt
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